Daily Reflections reading October 22nd

 

What We Know Best

 

, stick to thy last/" . . . better do one thing supremely well than many badly. That is the central theme of this Traditio"Shoemaker n [Five) Around it our Society gathers in unity. The very life of our Fellowship requires the preservation of this principle. TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS. p. 150

The survival of A.A. depends upon unity. What would happen if a group decided to become an employment agency, a treatment center or a social service agency? Too much specialization leads to no specialization, to frittering of efforts and, finally, to decline.

I have the qualifications to share my sufferings and my way of recovery with the newcomer. Conformity to A.A.'s primary purpose insures the safety of the wonderful gift of sobriety, so my responsibility is enormous. The life of millions of alcoholics is closely tied to my competence in "carrying the message to the still-suffering alcoholic."

© Alcoholics Anonymous World Services

My thoughts on October 23rd Reading

 

The Three Legacy of Recovery " Unity, Service, Recovery " they are like the legs of a three legged stool take anyone away and the stool will tip over, we need all three to survive in our program

Forward to the 12 & 12 "the steps are a set of principles, spiritual in their nature, if practiced as a way of life, can expel the obsession to drink and enable the sufferer to become happily and usefully whole"

The use of AA principles to changing circumstances in peoples lives, made them send letters to Bill. W. Asking for his last word on a matter of AA policy, on all kinds of matters in answering Bill would fall back upon the basic principles of AA 's Three Legacies Unity Service and Recovery

Tempered by wisdom, humor, perspective, and regard for the feelings of others, in 1968 when a well-meaning AA wrote to Bill, in deep concern about an influx of youthful hippies, or flower children to local AA groups, along with their distinctive manner of dress,

Sexual behaviors and other unorthodox behavior, including the use of drugs, the writer feared this particular invasion might be a very real threat to our wonderful God-given program. Bill's reply was typical of his use of AA principles to meet new challenges,

He wrote back about the hippie problem so-called, was very interesting to him, but he doubt that we need to be alarmed about this situation, because there have been precedents out of the past all sorts of outfits have tried to move in on us, including communists, heroin addicts, prohibitionists

Do-gooders, of other persuasions, nearly all of these people who happened to have an individual problem with alcohol, not only failed to change AA, but in the long run AA changed them Bill said I have a number of them among my closest friends today

They are among the best AA 's I know, you may also have some people who are not alcoholics but are just addicts, a great many AA ‘s have taken pity on these people and have actually tried to make them full-fledged AA 's. of course their identification with alcoholics is no good at all

AA ‘s however encourage these sponsors, to bring addicts to open meetings, just as they would any other interested people in the end these addicts usually gravitate to other forms of therapy, they are not received on the platform in open meetings unless they have an alcohol problem

Unfortunately many groups still deny them in closed and open meetings, even when they are also alcoholics whose only requirement is to have a desire to stop drinking, this is a major break down in our unity to serve other alcoholics in their quest for recovery

Where are they to go, would NA say they don't belong because of the alcohol, catch 22, unity and service means we refuse nobody the chance to have the same benefits of recover as we had when we came into the halls of AA, we need to always be here for them

 Bill went on to say there has occurred lately a new development centering upon hippies. Who have LSD or marijuana troubles, not so much stronger stuff, LSD was found to be stronger stuff many of these kids appear to be alcoholics also and they are flocking into AA

Often with excellent results, four of these kids visited Bills office he saw one young gal prancing down the hall, hair flying in a mini-skirt wearing love beads and the works, he thought Holy smoke what now

She told him she was the oldest member of the young people's group in her area, age twenty-two they had kids as young as sixteen. Bill was curious and took the whole party out to lunch, well they were absolutely wonderful they talked just about as good a kind of AA as I've seen anywhere

I think all of them said they had had some kind of drug problem but had kicked that too, when they first came around they had insisted on their own ideas of AA, but in the end they found AA very much good enough as it was, they needed change not the program

Bill said as younger people come into AA, we shall have to put up with some unconventional nonsense, with patience and good humor let's hope, but it should be well worth the attempt and if various hippie addicts want to form their own sort of fellowship along AA lines

By all means let us encourage them we need deny them only the AA name and assure them that the rest of our program is theirs for the taking and using any part, or all of it, Bill ended by saying for these reasons I feel hopeful and not a bit scared by this trend, of course I'm no prophet

I may be mistaken, so please keep me posted Bill said he is a highly interesting and perhaps a significant development. I certainly do not think it ought to be fought, it ought to be encouraged in what we already know to be workable channels

To those now in its fold, AA has made the difference between misery and sobriety, often the difference between life and death, AA can mean just as much to uncounted alcoholics not yet reached

No society of men and women ever had a more urgent need for continuous effectiveness and permanent unity, the hand of AA should always be there to insure our own recovery we alcoholics see that we must work together and hang together, else most of us will finally die alone

This is how AA can best function and how we in AA best stay whole and so we do survive

God bless you Al M

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