Daily Reflections reading July 24th

Helping Others

“Our very lives, as ex-problem drinkers, depend upon our constant thought of others and how we may help meet their needs. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p. 20

Self-centeredness was my problem. All my life people had been doing things for me and I not only expected it, but I was ungrateful and resentful they didn’t do more. Why should I help others, when they were supposed to help me? If others had troubles, didn’t they deserve them? I was filled with self-pity, anger and resentment. Then I learned that by helping others, with no thought of return, I could overcome this obsession with selfishness, and if I understood humility, I would know peace and serenity. No longer do I need to drink.

© Alcoholics Anonymous World Services

My thoughts on July 24th Reading

 

Remember we carry the message we do not carry anyone’s mess for them let go absolutely don't preach the program, share how it worked for you with others sharing our experience, strength, and hope is what recovery is all about and this is unity

 

Unity is defined as singleness of purpose or action, we sure have a single purpose that is to carry the message of recovery to all willing to surrender to their disease when we reach out to help others we all gain some real love and true friendships

 

Sobriety is helping others to find themselves, I found so many people on my journey that only wanted for me what was given to them, in the beginning of their journey I have learned that when I give unconditional love I always get it back

 

Love is hard to not receive back maybe not from those who I give it to but God does return to anyone giving freely of their time trying to help others living by His will we always get as good as we give so yes we help ourselves

 

Working with others improves our own judgment of character we seek others that have the things God wants us to have in our own lives we sit and listen to others then watch their actions we know who we need to seek out

 

To help us with our own recovery so it is all about helping myself thru working with others many in here are looking for the same things we were given when we first walked into the halls we also learn from all of you remembering what it was like before we learned how to trust

 

These meetings are but a beginning of a new way of life trusting gods wisdom knowing we can not keep this fellowship unless we give it all away each and every day reach out to the one who still suffers and you will receive 10 fold for your efforts

 

Even when they slip you learn patience tolerance and understanding of your own disease

And with this new knowledge you grow in the fellowship and your own life is always enriched when you reach out to your fellow suffers God gave us this gift!! Use it or to lose it!!

 

God bless you Al M

               

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