Daily Reflections reading March 28th

 

Equality

 

Our membership ought to include all who suffer from alcoholism. Hence we may refuse none who wish to recover. Nor ought A.A. membership ever depend upon money or conformity. Any two or three alcoholics gathered together for sobriety may call themselves an A.A. group, provided that, as a group, they have no other affiliation. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p. 565

 

Prior to A.A., I often felt that I didn’t “fit in” with the people around me. Usually “they” had more/less money than I did, and my points of view didn’t jibe with “theirs.” The amount of prejudice I had experienced in society only proved to me just how phony some self -righteous people were. After joining A.A., I found the way of life I had been searching for. In A.A. no member is any better than any other member; we’re just alcoholics trying to recover from alcoholism.

 

© Alcoholics Anonymous World Services

 

My thoughts on March 28th Reading

 

Equality one of the things I have seen in meeting, is others prejudging some new AA members as losers, personally I do not, but I have see many who have judged others as losers, even going as far as asking why we waste our time trying to help people who keep going back out over and over

 

The answer is simple when ever anyone anywhere’s reaches out I want the hand of AA to be there many come and go, but if they ask for help, I will try my best to help them to find recovery to me all are welcome, as tradition three says it was simplicity itself

 

At last experience taught us we are all equal, to take away any alcoholic's full chance, was sometimes to pronounce his death sentence, often to condemn them to endless misery, who dared to be judge, jury, and executioner

 

Of his own sick brother or sister, thank God we are "all inclusive" never exclusive none refused I have to look at when I came into the halls, I know I did not know what I wanted at that time, I sure did not feel like I belonged when I first came to the halls

 

I don’t think I was to sincere, but when I started to accept the teachings of the program, I like so many other did became sincere, to judge someone a phony could take their chances of recovery away from them, sometimes quickly sometimes slowly the promises will come true

 

When I carry the message it is to insure I have one more day of sobriety, I will not let personalities

Get in the way of my own recovery, why would I let them interfere with someone else’s recovery

After all I did not believe in much when I arrived at the doors

 

I came, I came too, I came to believe I am not impressed by anyone who comes into the halls, we are a very diverse group of people, from all walks of life looking for the same thing, to solve our common problem alcoholism

 

And to carry the message to others who suffer from our disease, the only thing I get impressed with, is when the light goes off and another alcoholic finds the hope to carry on with recovery, when someone turns up at AA needing information or help

 

It does not really matter to me what they do for a living, where they live, what their domestic arrangements are, have they been to AA before, when anyone turns to AA needed any information I am glad to reach out and help them

 

Be it questions, literature, times, and places of meetings, how Anonymity works, or the ten thousand other things they may want to know about, it is none of my business where they live, what arrangements they have, if they have been to AA before, or what their other problems are

 

I am here to insure they have the same chance at recovery I have had when I came into AA, I reach out to others with a welcomed hand to carry the message of hope, to anyone who wants it in so doing I insure myself of one more day of sobriety for myself, this is all I ask for one more day

 

God in His grace granted me the serenity to accept this and the wisdom to reach out to help anyone who wants recovery, Equality is the condition of being equal and in AA we are sure all equal in our disease and can be equal in our recovery for this common disease

 

God bless you Al M

 

 

 

 

 

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