Abstinence
is your responsibility -
not your family, friends, employer, co-workers, etc....
Have a
program, follow it and be patient. Avoid
people, places and things associated with
drinking and drugging.
Expect some
emotional & physical ups and downs. You are
adjusting to a new life without chemicals.
Be good to
yourself. You are worth it. Expect to
be tired. It is OK to be tired Don't try
to make up for lost time with extra effort.
There are
no excuses for not working your program. Don't
expect special favors or time off
so you can work your program.
Avoid
unnecessary confrontation and leave anger to others. Expect some
- people especially former buddies - to avoid you. They may
lack understanding or you may be triggering
a personal concern or problem.
Avoid major
changes in employment,
relationships and living arrangements.
Major
changes can cause stress. Don't start
preaching to others. Don't feel
you have to explain everything to everybody.
Be honest
but remember you have the option
and only when you are comfortable.
Questions
about drinking and drugging
do not require lengthy explanations. Just say no
when invited to use.
Follow your
program, pick up the phone
before a drink or drug, and say the Serenity Prayer. You can't
get high if you don't take the first drink or drug.
Think before you speak or act. Auther Unknown
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